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January 16, 2012

Is It Time For A New Nanny?

Blog-nanny-qualitiesThe New Year brings a lot of changes – and evaluations. I like to clean out my closets. If I haven't worn something in over a year, I donate it. It's also the time our company does performance reviews to talk about strengths and challenges we want to work on in the next year.

I've also found that a lot of our members like to evaluate their care plan this time of year.

An employee here recently left work a little early on a nice day and popped in on her nanny and son at the playground. Her nanny was calmly sitting on the park bench. But her 3-year old son was playing "baseball" (no bats or balls, just running bases in some game he'd concocted like creative, wild 3-year olds can be!) with another nanny and 3-year old in the field. Everyone was fine, but Mom had a realization – her calm, pleasant, nurturing nanny couldn't match the energy level of her bouncing, sprinting, leaping 3-year old boy.

It was time for a new nanny.

If you were to do it over again, would you hire the same nanny for your child? What qualities have you found are most important in care providers?

Sometimes these changes can be made with a discussion, like with performance reviews. You could ask your nanny to sit down and discuss the year ahead. This is a great time to update your nanny contract as well. Or, you might feel you need a whole new personality who is a better fit for your evolving family. (One tip: If you decide it's time for a change, make sure you give your current nanny proper notice. We suggest 2 weeks.)

Tell us – what do you love most about your nanny – or what would you change?


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Kiwicutie

As a mother who hires sitters and as a full time nanny myself this makes me sad. One time your nanny is sitting and she goes. Seems like even if she her self was not out playing she was finding company who was doing what the child needs. Do you consider the bond they have etc. maybe in this one area she is not a 10 out of 10 but in my books a good nanny/sitter is more than just the hired help, she is a big part of our family. Sometimes bonds, trust etc are worth more. If the nanny never took the child to park where he wanted to go that would be more of an issue for me. I always tell parents that I am happy to play with their children but please remember that I am also an adult and three hours of barbies might just be more than I can do but I am always happy to find a playmate who is willing to play right along with your child.

Mary

I wanted to comment that age might have little to do with it. I liked how the writer made the point that it was the personality of the nanny that did not "grow" with the child. I am not a nanny, but a teacher and I feel that having an energetic vibe is necessary with children and you can have it at any age. It is hard to convey that in writing. We all want different influences for our children. The above comment was also a good balance. It is a good exercise for a parent to really clarify their vales when looking for a professional to be with their children, after all, they will co-parent with you!

Susie

That is sad. Parents should be careful not to discriminate against their nanny on the basis of age, though. Parents do, however, have the right to require certain physical characteristics that go hand and hand with being a nanny. If a nanny doesn't meet those characteristics, then it might be time to have a discussion with her and find someone else if needed.

Nanny Authority

It is usually advised to have a nanny for long term but cases like above need a check regularly.
New nanny is a good idea for growing kids.

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