I know it's a little belated, but wanted to call attention to the fact that today, May 11th, is National Care Provider Appreciation Day!

Every year since 1996, on the Friday before Mother's Day, parents across the nation have been taking the time to thank those who care for our most precious loved ones: our children, our parents, grandparents, or disabled family members, and our pets.

Please take the time today to thank or buy a gift for the caregivers and care providers in your life. If you're stuck for ideas, check out the Celebration Ideas page of the official website for Provider Appreciation Day. I especially love the idea of working with your child to create a special remembrance, or giving your provider a "paid day off" in the form of a bonus.

I always revisit this gift guide by Susan Stellin, a writer at Real Simple magazine. The article, published last December and titled "Who? How Much?", was published as "the ultimate thank-you guide for a year of good service." It was meant as a tipping guide for the holiday season, but I find it's a relevant and handy reference for any occasion.

Ms. Stellin suggested that for care providers, gifts or cash bonuses should equal a week's worth of pay. For your nanny or for a regular caregiver who has been with you for a long time, you might want to also include a little something sentimental, like a framed photo of him or her with your loved one(s). I also always enjoy giving gift certificates for a spa or a restaurant—they always feel like extra-special treats, and are things that most people are reluctant to buy or indulge in themselves.

Make your caregiver or care provider feel appreciated!

Cheers,

Sheila