10 Tips for Nightmare-Free Doctor Visits for Seniors

Medical visits can trigger real worry over possible illness, anticipation of a painful procedure, and even anxiety attacks. Check out these 10 tips to reduce seniors' fears and ensure your medical visit won't be a total nightmare! Got great tips for soothing seniors before a trip to the doctor? Post a comment to let other caregivers know!

1. Schedule the appointment at a suitable time for your senior's needs. Is the a morning person? Does she need to nap in the afternoon?

2. Do not mention the visit too far in advance. Otherwise she will worry needlessly.

3. Call beforehand to find out if the doctor is running late. Plan to arrive shortly before your senior will actually be seen.

4. Get advance permission to go with your senior into the examination room.

5. Have a list of prepared questions. Encourage  your senior to add her own questions to the list.

6. Bring a copy of medications (over-the-counter and prescriptions), vitamins, and supplements. Include dosages.

7. One-third of those who qualify for Medicare can get prescription drugs for next to nothing. Visit www.socialsecurity.gov/ for details. Reminding your senior of this can help reduce fears about financial strain that often accompany medical care.

8. Discuss problems with the doctor that affect physical well-being, such as insomnia and stress -- not just symptoms of a diagnosed illness.

9. Take notes during the visit. Request a copy of the doctor's report, including lab work results, for your own personal file. It's extremely difficult to remember everything said during a medical exam -- taking notes can help you keep the facts straight -- especially important if your senior is seeing several doctors for a variety of issues.

10. Was the health care provider a good listener? Did he make eye contact with your senior? Did he respect your opinions as a caregiver? If not, consider switching to a more compatible doctor. Remember, you and the senior in your care represent half of the doctor-patient relationship -- so don't be afraid to speak up and advocate for your senior.

Be in control of your trips to the doctor and both you and your senior will leave feeling better. Post a comment to tell us your strategies for keeping your senior calm at the doctor's office!